Traveling is a passion many people share, and what better person to share it with, then with your partner. Traveling with your partner for the first time is exciting. To some couples however, it might feel like a make or break. You might work really great as a couple during your day to day life, but how will it be away from home, when all you have is each other?
We faced this question the first time we went on a trip and have since met many people who have gone through the same. Especially younger couples that do not yet live together, might experience some first time vacation jitters. This is very normal! If you do want to feel prepared and instead of feeling anxious, feeling moreover excited for your first vacation, here are some tips.
Talk about previous holidays
There is a lot to learn from previous holidays. You have both most likely had vacations before you met each other. What did you like about these trips? The location maybe, or the weather? What makes a holiday ‘’a good’’ holiday for you? These are all things you can talk about in advance so you know what both of you expect from a holiday. It is also very good to talk about what you dislike on a vacation. There are people that love to relax at the pool all day, drink a cocktail or 3, and sleep in everyday. Other people enjoy a full day of sightseeing, museums or long adventure hikes. It is good to discuss what type of holiday you prefer. You might align perfectly, and if not, maybe it is good to try something else sometimes. For those that don’t really seem to have a similar taste when it comes to vacations, it will most likely be a compromise. A few days at the beach, a few days of activities. It could be the best of both worlds if you both keep an open mind.
It is good to remember that there are so many different kinds of holidays. From the different types of accommodations, to the transportation methods. It might take you a few tries to find the ideal vacation for you both.
Plan together
Where some people enjoy a more spontaneous holiday, other people like to plan the entire trip. Find each other in the middle and do some research. Maybe a few highlights to explore. Try to remember that traveling together will sometimes mean that you have to compromise. You might not be into art but if your partner is, just go to that museum. If it makes your partner happy, do it! It will not take an entire day but it will be worth a lot to the other person.
Your first trip as a couple is also a great time to explore new activities to do. Try something new! This might be your first time going on a holiday with a romantic partner so take advantage of that. Go on a romantic dinner date, take your partner out stargazing or rent out a romantic cabin in the woods complete with a jacuzzi. Everything’s better when you can share it with somebody you love!
Hype each other up
Nothing is better than to look forward to something exciting. Especially if you feel a little anxious towards your first vacation together, it can be really helpful to hype each other up. Try and talk about all the things you are excited for. Going into a new experience with an open mind and a positive attitude is probably the right way to go. Don’t overthink it. What is the worst that could happen? Try to always go into it with optimism and excitement.
Be honest and be real
Although it is sometimes better to stay positive and keep the spirits high, there should always be room for honesty. It could also be something to bond over. Sometimes complaining over the same thing might help you connect and not feel alone in an opinion.
There is also a time at which you should realize that you are pretending to have fun or feel good. Maybe you’re feeling sick or you get bored. These are things to talk about. Don’t be afraid to speak your mind if you feel like you are not comfortable with a decision or situation. If you don’t talk about what is bothering you, then it will probably not change. For all you know, your partner feels the same way.
Make memories and enjoy the trip
Going on a vacation with your partner for the first time is for sure exciting, to some even scary. Don’t worry though. There is a first time for everything and for all you know, it will be the trip of a lifetime. Don’t forget to communicate and keep an open mind. Try new things and get to know eachother even better. Nothing better than making memories you will never forget!
Bio
Hello!, We are Veerle and Koen and we are a 27 year old couple with a passion for travel. We are from the Netherlands but have called multiple countries our home. We have lived in Malta and Romania and have been traveling full time since the spring of 2024. We love hiking, swimming, photography and good food. We are proud owners of an RV and make a living as full time content creators for our website ‘’RV Travelups’’.
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